How I Research a Holiday Destination Before I Go (Restaurants, Beaches and Hidden Gems)
Friday, 21 August 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
Researching a holiday destination used to be where I either did absolutely nothing and arrived completely unprepared, or went the opposite direction and ended up with a spreadsheet of restaurants, beach clubs and day trips that made the holiday feel like a schedule I had to follow rather than something I was meant to enjoy.
Now I’ve found a middle ground.
I still do research, but it’s loose, flexible and focused on giving me options rather than a strict itinerary I feel guilty for not sticking to.
Think of it as building a map of ideas, not a timetable.
The mindset shift: I stopped trying to plan the perfect holiday
The biggest change in how I research holidays is accepting that I don’t need to know everything in advance.
I used to think I needed:
A fully planned itinerary
Every meal booked
Every activity scheduled
Every day mapped out
But the truth is, the best parts of holidays are usually the things you didn’t plan.
Now I aim for something much simpler: I just want to arrive with a shortlist of places I might like to visit.
That’s it.
Step one: I start with Google Maps, not blogs
The first thing I do is open Google Maps and drop pins everywhere that looks interesting.
I look for:
Beaches
Restaurants
Cafés
Beach clubs
Bars
Pretty streets or viewpoints
This is the least stressful part because it’s purely visual and instinctive. If something looks good, I save it.
I don’t worry about order or planning at this stage. It’s just collecting options.
Step two: I check a few trusted sources (not everything)
I used to go down a deep internet rabbit hole reading every blog, review and travel forum possible.
Now I keep it limited.
I’ll usually check:
A few recent blog posts
Instagram location tags
TikTok searches for the destination
A couple of honest reviews on key places
That’s it.
If I overconsume information, I end up second-guessing everything. So I deliberately stop before I reach that point.
Step three: I build a loose “must-visit” list
Once I’ve saved enough places, I narrow it down into a simple list.
I usually split it into:
Restaurants I really want to try
Not ten options. Usually three or four that stand out.
One or two beaches
I don’t try to visit every beach in the area. I pick the ones that look the most appealing and leave room to discover others once I’m there.
A few activities or day trips
Anything that feels interesting, but not essential.
This becomes my loose plan, not my strict schedule.
Step four: I accept I will discover things while I’m there
This is the part I used to forget.
No matter how much research you do, you will still:
Walk past places you didn’t see online
Get recommendations from locals
Find cafés and restaurants by accident
Change your plans because of weather or mood
So now I intentionally leave space in my planning for spontaneity.
If something looks good in the moment, I go there. Simple as that.
What I no longer do (and it changed everything)
I don’t over-plan daily itineraries
I don’t assign activities to specific days anymore. It removes pressure and makes everything feel more relaxed.
I don’t save hundreds of places
Too many options becomes overwhelming. I now focus on a small curated list.
I don’t try to “do everything”
Holidays are not competitions. I don’t need to see every attraction or eat at every recommended restaurant.
My simple research system now
If I had to sum it up, it’s this:
Save places that genuinely appeal to me
Keep the list short and flexible
Focus on food, beaches and a few key experiences
Leave space for spontaneity
That’s it.
It’s not complicated, but it works.
Why this approach actually makes holidays better
The biggest difference I’ve noticed is that I enjoy my holidays more when I’m not trying to stick to a plan.
Instead of thinking:
“I need to fit everything in,”
I now think:
“We’ll see what we feel like doing today.”
And somehow, I still end up doing all the best things, just without the pressure.
Final thoughts
Researching a holiday destination should make you excited, not overwhelmed.
A bit of preparation is useful. It helps you avoid missing out on things you genuinely want to do.
But overplanning takes away the spontaneity that makes travel feel like a break in the first place.
Now I go in with ideas, not obligations.
And honestly, that balance has made travelling a lot more enjoyable.
That’s the end of this mini series on holiday preparation. I’m now just a few weeks away from flying off on holiday, and the planning is officially shifting from preparation mode into anticipation mode.
When I am back, I’ll be sharing all the restaurants, beaches, cafés and little hidden places that I would recommend!
Molly
Holiday Outfit Ideas (What I Actually Wear on Holiday Without Overpacking)
Friday, 14 August 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
Packing holiday outfits used to be where everything went wrong for me.
I would stand in front of my wardrobe and suddenly forget how holidays work. I’d start planning outfits for completely imaginary scenarios like “romantic beach dinner in a breeze” or “casual daytime yacht situation” despite the fact I was going somewhere where I would realistically wear shorts and a loose dress for 90% of the trip.
Now I keep it simple. Not boring, not minimal for the sake of it, just realistic.
These are the holiday outfit ideas I actually wear, broken down by what I genuinely live in while I’m away.
The mindset shift: I stopped packing outfits for a fantasy version of myself
The biggest change in my approach to holiday outfits was accepting this:
I am not going to suddenly become someone who changes outfits three times a day or wears things that require effort in 30-degree heat.
On holiday, I want:
Comfort
Easy outfits
Things I can repeat without overthinking
Once I accepted that, packing became much easier.
Now I build outfits around what I will actually reach for, not what looks good on a packing list.
Travel day outfit: comfort first, always
I now treat travel day as its own category.
My go-to is:
Leggings
Oversized t-shirt or light top
Trainers
Light cardigan or hoodie
The goal is simple: be comfortable for sitting, walking through airports, and dealing with unpredictable temperatures.
If I feel even slightly restricted, I won’t wear it.
Beach and pool outfits: repeat on rotation
This is where most of my holiday time is spent, so I keep it very straightforward.
Swimwear
I pack a few swimsuits or bikinis and rotate them throughout the trip. I don’t overthink it anymore.
Cover-ups
Loose shirt dresses
Lightweight kaftan-style cover-ups
Oversized shirts that double as outfits
These are the real MVPs of holiday dressing because they work for beach, pool bar, and walking back to the room without needing a full outfit change.
Daytime outfits: easy, breathable, repeatable
For daytime exploring, I stick to simple combinations.
My go-to combinations:
Shorts and a loose top
Light sundress
Co-ord set that doesn’t need styling
Linen trousers with a basic vest or t-shirt
The key here is fabrics that don’t make you feel like you’re melting five minutes into walking.
I also make sure everything mixes and matches so I’m not creating “outfits” as much as I am rotating pieces.
Sightseeing outfits: practical but still put together
Sightseeing outfits need to work a bit harder, but not too hard.
I usually go for:
Trainers (non-negotiable for walking)
Comfortable shorts or trousers
Lightweight top
Crossbody bag
This is where I remind myself that no one cares what I’m wearing, and I care more about not sweating through something complicated.
Evening outfits: simple “dinner and drinks” rotation
Evenings are where I used to overpack the most.
Now I limit myself to a few easy options:
2–3 relaxed dresses
A nice co-ord
One slightly dressier outfit “just in case”
In reality, I usually end up rotating between two outfits depending on how hot it is and how much effort I feel like putting in.
I’ve stopped packing outfits for “what if we go somewhere fancy” unless I actually know we are.
What I don’t pack anymore (but used to overpack constantly)
This is where I’ve really simplified things.
Statement outfits I never wear
The “just in case I feel like going all out” outfits always stay in the suitcase untouched.
Too many evening options
Two weeks does not require ten different dinner outfits.
Uncomfortable shoes
If it needs breaking in, it is not going on holiday.
Extra outfits for every possible mood
I used to pack like I had multiple personalities. Now I don’t.
My packing system now: outfits built around repetition
Instead of packing full outfits, I now pack pieces that work in rotation.
For example:
Two or three tops that work with multiple bottoms
One or two bottoms that go with everything
Dresses that don’t need styling
Shoes that match multiple outfits
This means I’m not packing “days”, I’m packing options.
And somehow, I still end up wearing the same favourites most of the time.
The real truth: no one remembers your outfits
This was a big mindset shift for me.
On holiday, I used to think every outfit needed to feel “different enough”.
Now I realise:
No one is tracking what I wore yesterday
Repeating outfits is normal
Comfort always wins
And honestly, it makes the whole experience so much easier.
Final thoughts
Holiday outfit planning used to feel like a styling challenge I needed to win.
Now it’s just about packing things I actually enjoy wearing.
A few easy outfits for the day, a few relaxed options for the evening, and a focus on comfort over perfection.
It’s not about packing less for the sake of it. It’s about packing better so you actually wear what you bring.
Next up: how I research my holiday before I go so I don’t miss the best restaurants, beaches and hidden spots once I arrive.
Molly
A Taste of Thailand in Surrey: Magic of Thailand Festival at Stoke Park Review
Wednesday, 12 August 2026 • Food and Drink, Lifestyle, Review, Travel
When you think of Thailand, your mind probably goes straight to turquoise waters, tropical beaches, bustling markets and bowls of food packed with flavour. What you probably don’t immediately picture is a sunny weekend in the middle of Guildford however, a couple of weeks ago, the Magic of Thailand Festival at Stoke Park managed to bring a little slice of Thai culture to Surrey.
As someone who loves travel, food and finding little pockets of something different closer to home, this was exactly the kind of local event that caught my attention. A festival promising Thai food, performances, culture and cocktails? Obviously, I had to go and investigate.
First impressions
Held at Stoke Park in Guildford, the festival had a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere from the moment we arrived. Unlike some larger festivals where you spend half your day just navigating crowds, this felt much more manageable - big enough to feel like there was plenty going on, but small enough that you could actually wander, browse and enjoy yourself.
There was a lovely community feel, with colourful market stalls, food vendors, entertainment throughout the day and plenty of opportunities to experience different elements of Thai culture.
The whole thing felt like a little escape from Surrey life, a few hours where you could pretend you’d swapped the Surrey streets for a Thai street market.
The food: the highlight of the day
Let’s be honest, when you visit a Thai festival, the food is always going to be one of the biggest attractions.
Walking around the food stalls was probably one of my favourite parts of the day. The smells alone were enough to transport you somewhere warmer: fragrant herbs, spices, curries and sizzling street food filling the air.
After much deliberation (because choosing from a festival full of amazing food is genuinely difficult), I opted for a veggie Thai green curry and it did not disappoint. Creamy, fragrant and packed with flavour, it was exactly the kind of comforting dish you want when you’re looking for a proper taste of Thailand rather than just a quick festival snack.
Of course, no festival day is complete without a drink to match, and we also enjoyed cocktails from the Full Moon Cocktail Bar. With tropical flavours and holiday vibes, it was the perfect addition to the afternoon and definitely helped create that feeling of being somewhere much further away than Guildford.
Entertainment and atmosphere
The Magic of Thailand Festival wasn’t just about eating (although that alone would have been a pretty good reason to visit). Throughout the day there were traditional performances, music, demonstrations and cultural activities that helped showcase different aspects of Thailand.
One of the standout performances was the ladyboy show, which was an incredibly high-energy addition to the day. Full of colour, music, dancing and plenty of personality, it was certainly an interesting watch and brought a completely different atmosphere to the festival. It was a fun and lively performance that captured the entertainment side of Thai culture and had the crowd engaged throughout.
From traditional dancing to martial arts displays, there was plenty to watch while wandering between stalls. It felt like a celebration of Thai culture rather than simply a food market with a theme.
The relaxed atmosphere also made it an enjoyable day out for all ages, whether you were there to try new foods, browse the stalls, enjoy the performances or simply soak up the atmosphere.
Would I recommend it?
Absolutely - especially if you’re looking for something a little different to do without having to travel abroad.
The great thing about the Magic of Thailand Festival is that it tours around the country, bringing Thai food, entertainment and culture to different locations throughout the year. So, even if you missed the Stoke Park event, it’s worth keeping an eye out to see if it’s coming somewhere near you.
It’s a brilliant option for a relaxed day out as a couple, with friends or as a family. Whether you’re a huge fan of Thai food or simply curious to experience something new, it’s a fun way to spend a few hours.
It’s also a lovely reminder that you don’t always need to book a flight to experience a different culture. Sometimes you just need to follow the smell of Thai street food, find a cocktail bar and let yourself be transported somewhere else for the afternoon.
Final thoughts
The Magic of Thailand Festival at Stoke Park was a colourful, tasty and enjoyable celebration of Thai culture right here in Surrey. While it obviously can’t replace the experience of actually visiting Thailand (sadly, no festival can recreate those beaches), it did offer a fun little escape and a very good excuse to eat your way through some incredible food.
Would I go again? Definitely. Although next time I might need a better strategy for choosing what to eat, because picking just one dish when surrounded by Thai street food is genuinely the hardest part.
Molly
Travel Essentials I Never Fly Without (Long Haul and Short Flights)
Friday, 7 August 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
I used to think travel essentials were obvious.
Passport. Phone. Wallet. Done.
And then I had one too many flights where I was either freezing, dehydrated, bored, or quietly regretting every life choice that led me to a 7-hour journey with nothing useful in my hand luggage.
Now I’ve got a proper system. Not overly complicated, not influencer level overpacked, just a realistic set of travel essentials that make flying a lot more comfortable.
Whether it’s a short European flight or a longer haul journey, these are the things I genuinely never fly without anymore.
The mindset shift: comfort beats overpacking
The biggest change I made with travel packing was realising I don’t need more things, I need better choices.
I used to pack for every possible scenario:
“What if I get cold?”
“What if I get bored?”
“What if I suddenly become a person who journals on planes?”
Now I pack for one goal: making travel day as comfortable and low-stress as possible.
The travel documents I double-check obsessively
Let’s start with the obvious but still somehow stressful part.
Passport
Boarding pass (digital and sometimes printed, because I don’t trust myself)
Travel insurance details
Accommodation details
Any transport confirmations
I now check these about five times before I leave the house, even though I know I’ve already checked them.
My in-flight comfort essentials
This is where the real difference to travel day happens.
Headphones or AirPods
Non-negotiable. Whether I’m watching something, listening to music or trying to ignore turbulence-induced overthinking, these are essential.
Kindle
My absolute travel must-have. I will always, without fail, finish more books on holiday travel days than I do at any other point in my life.
Neck pillow (if it’s a longer flight)
I resisted this for years thinking I didn’t need one. I was wrong. It makes a huge difference on anything longer than a few hours.
Eye mask
Especially for longer flights or if I’m trying to trick my body into a nap at 10am local time.
Light layer
A jumper or cardigan always goes in my hand luggage because planes are either freezing or aggressively unpredictable.
The small things that quietly save the day
These are the items that don’t seem important until suddenly they are.
Lip balm
Cabin air is brutal. I always have one within reach.
Suncream (small size)
Especially if I’m heading somewhere warm straight after landing. It saves me from immediately forgetting skincare logic after a flight.
Hand sanitiser
Airports are a reality check.
Wet wipes or tissues
Always useful. Always forgotten if I don’t specifically pack them.
Reusable water bottle
I take it empty through security and fill it up after. It sounds small, but it makes a long flight noticeably better.
Snacks (because airplane food is unpredictable)
I now always pack something to eat, even if I think I won’t need it.
Usually:
Something salty - popcorn or crisps
Something sweet for a morale boost
Chewing gum
There is something psychologically comforting about knowing you are not fully reliant on airline snack timing.
Tech I always bring
This is the category that saves me from boredom and mild panic.
Phone and charger
Portable charger
Charging cable
Plug adapter (if I’m connecting or arriving tired and need to charge immediately)
The portable charger is especially important. I’ve learned this the hard way more than once.
Airport bag essentials
I now think of my hand luggage as a separate category from my suitcase. It needs its own logic.
My airport bag always includes:
Passport
Phone
Wallet
Kindle
Headphones
Lip balm
Hand sanitiser
Snacks
Water bottle (empty until after security)
Light jumper or scarf
If this bag is organised, the rest of the journey feels manageable.
Things I used to overthink (and now don’t pack)
There are a few things I’ve stopped bringing entirely.
Too many entertainment options
I used to pack books, magazines, downloaded shows, and still end up scrolling on my phone anyway. Now I just bring my Kindle and one downloaded show.
Overly bulky travel pillows
Some are just not worth the space. I’ve learned to keep it simple.
Full beauty routine in hand luggage
Now it’s just basics. No full skincare setup on the plane.
My travel rule now
If I wouldn’t miss it within the first two hours of a flight, it doesn’t go in my hand luggage.
It keeps everything focused and stops me from overpacking “comfort items” I never actually use.
Final thoughts
Travel used to feel slightly chaotic for me. Not because I was unprepared, but because I was overprepared in all the wrong ways.
Now I focus on the small things that actually make a difference: comfort, hydration, entertainment, and not forgetting the basics.
It doesn’t need to be complicated. It just needs to work.
And honestly, a calm airport experience starts long before you get there — it starts with what you decide to put in your bag.
Next up: holiday outfit ideas, including what I actually wear on beach days, evenings and everything in between, without packing my entire wardrobe “just in case”.
Molly
Mid-Year Check In: Enjoying the Little Joys
Wednesday, 5 August 2026 • Lifestyle, Other
I can’t quite believe we’re already halfway through 2026. This year has somehow managed to feel like it’s flying by, while also feeling like so much has happened.
Looking back over the last six months, I think the biggest thing I’ve noticed is how much I’ve been enjoying the little joys - the everyday moments that make life feel exciting. Not necessarily huge, life-changing events, but all the things that add up to creating a life you genuinely love.
A big part of that has been settling into married life. After all the excitement of our two weddings last year - our registry office ceremony surrounded by our immediate family and my bridesmaids (who are basically family anyway), followed by our bigger celebration with our wider family and friends - it’s been really lovely moving into the next chapter and just enjoying being husband and wife.
There’s something really special about the everyday side of marriage; making plans together, working on our home, going on adventures and creating memories along the way. The wedding celebrations were amazing, but it’s the ordinary moments afterwards that make up the life you’ve been so excited to start.
One of the things I’m most proud of this year is bringing my blog back properly. After taking a step back, returning to blogging and creating content has reminded me just how much I’ve missed it. I’ve loved writing again, sharing our adventures and having a creative outlet that feels like me.
We’ve already packed plenty into the year too. We’ve had two camping trips and a staycation, and I’m hoping to squeeze in another camping trip or two before the year is over. Camping has become one of my favourite ways to escape the everyday, even if it does involve a questionable amount of arguing with tent poles and trying to remember where everything is packed.
At home, we finally had our kitchen redone, which has been one of those projects that completely changes how you feel about your space. Seeing it all come together and making our home feel more “us” has been such a good feeling.
I’ve also unexpectedly become someone who knits. I’m still not entirely sure how this happened, but I’ve embraced it. There’s something really satisfying about learning a new skill and having something creative to do away from a screen (even if my first attempts are very much a work in progress).
Work has also been a big focus this year. Continuing my apprenticeship alongside my role has meant balancing studying, assignments and my usual workload, which has definitely been a challenge at times. But I’m really proud of myself for sticking with it, continuing to learn and finding a way to make it work alongside everything else going on.
One of my favourite parts of this year has been celebrating the people around me too. I’ve loved watching my friends and family have their own exciting moments - one of my sisters buying her first house and conquering her fear of driving one approved route at a time, my other sister winning Employee of the Month, my best friend getting engaged and another friend absolutely smashing it at work.
Their achievements have genuinely made me so happy, and I feel really lucky to have so many amazing people around me to cheer on. Sometimes the best moments aren’t just your own milestones, but getting to watch the people you love achieve theirs.
Looking ahead to the rest of 2026, there’s still plenty to be excited about. I’m hoping to fit in another camping trip or two, hit my goal of reading 100 books this year, enjoy our Spain holiday and embrace all the cosy Christmas plans when the time comes (yes, I know it’s July, but I can’t be the only one already thinking about it).
If this year has taught me anything, it’s that the best parts of life are often found in the things you choose to make time for - hobbies, adventures, home projects, books, friends, family and the moments that make you smile.
Here’s to the second half of 2026 and plenty more little joys.
Molly
My Realistic 2 Week Holiday Packing List (What I Actually Take on a Two Week Trip Abroad)
Friday, 31 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
Packing for a two week holiday should, in theory, be straightforward.
Two weeks is long enough that you feel like you need everything, but short enough that you could technically survive with a capsule wardrobe if you were a completely different, highly disciplined version of yourself.
I am not that version of myself.
So over time, I’ve stopped trying to pack for an imaginary “perfect holiday me” and started packing for the version of me who repeats outfits, prioritises comfort, and still somehow forgets at least one essential item every single time.
This is my realistic 2 week holiday packing list.
The mindset shift: I stopped packing for two weeks of different personalities
The biggest mistake I used to make was packing like I was going to reinvent my entire lifestyle abroad.
I would pack:
Too many “nice dinner” outfits
Too many shoes I would never wear
Skincare I had never used before
And enough books for a small literary festival
Now I’ve accepted a simple truth:
For two weeks away, I still wear the same core outfits on repeat.
Once I understood that, everything got easier.
Clothing: realistic outfits for two weeks, not fourteen fantasy days
This is where I used to massively overpack.
Now I aim for mix-and-match pieces that actually get worn.
Day outfits
For a two week trip, I pack:
5–6 daytime outfits that can be repeated
Lightweight dresses, shorts and tops that mix easily
A couple of “throw on and go” outfits for travel mornings or relaxed days
In reality, I rotate through the same favourites and ignore the rest.
Evening outfits
3–4 relaxed evening outfits
One slightly dressier option (that I tell myself I will wear more than I actually do)
Two weeks sounds like you need variety. You don’t. You need options you actually like wearing.
Swimwear
3–4 swimsuits or bikinis
1–2 cover-ups
I always overpack swimwear, but it’s one of the few things I don’t regret.
Sleepwear
One oversized t-shirt
Underwear and socks
I do not underpack this anymore. Experience has taught me better.
Layers
One light cardigan or shirt
One jumper for travel days or cooler evenings
Shoes: the most simplified part of my packing
Shoes used to be where my suitcase went wrong every time.
Now I stick to:
Sandals (everyday wear)
Trainers (travel days and walking)
One nicer pair for evenings
If it hurts my feet at home, it does not go on a two week holiday. Simple rule, fewer regrets.
Toiletries: the edited version
This is heavily streamlined thanks to my separate beauty bag system.
For two weeks, I take:
Skincare essentials only
Suncream (face and body)
Shampoo and conditioner (travel sizes or decanted)
Body wash
Moisturiser
Deodorant
Minimal makeup bag
No duplicates. No backups. No “just in case” versions of things I already packed.
Tech and essentials I never skip
These are non-negotiable for me now.
Phone and charger
Portable charger
Plug adapter
Headphones or AirPods
Kindle
Charging cables
Passport and travel wallet
The Kindle is arguably the most important item here for a two week trip. I will not be persuaded otherwise.
Hand luggage for travel day
This is where I used to go wrong the most, so I now treat it separately.
Passport
Phone
Wallet
Kindle or book
Headphones
Empty water bottle (for after security)
Snacks
Lip balm
Suncream (small size)
Light jumper or scarf
If travel day goes wrong, it is usually because I forgot something from this list.
What I always forget (even after years of travelling)
No matter how many lists I write, these still get left behind sometimes:
Hair ties
Sunglasses
Phone charger
Toothbrush
One random essential I only notice too late
I now mentally budget for forgetting one item. It reduces stress.
What I still overpack for two weeks
Even with experience, I am not perfect.
Extra dresses I don’t wear
Too many “nice” outfits
Books I don’t finish
Makeup I barely touch
Shoes I never leave the suitcase
I’ve accepted this is part of my process.
My two week packing rule
If I wouldn’t wear it in the next week at home, I don’t pack it.
If I hesitate for more than 10 seconds, it doesn’t go.
And if I say “just in case,” it is almost always unnecessary.
Final thoughts
A two week holiday used to feel like a packing challenge I needed to win.
Now it’s just about being realistic.
I still overpack slightly, but it’s controlled, intentional overpacking rather than chaos-driven panic packing.
And honestly, that feels like progress.
Next up: travel essentials I never fly without — the small things that make a surprisingly big difference on long travel days and airport journeys.
Molly
Foods I’ll Never Stop Ordering at Restaurants
Wednesday, 29 July 2026 • Food and Drink, Lifestyle
I always tell myself that this time I’m going to be adventurous when I order. I’ll scan the menu properly, ignore my usual favourites and try something completely new.
And then I see a Caprese salad… and all of that ambition quietly disappears.
Some foods just hit every time, and I’ve accepted that I’m never going to stop ordering them.
First up is a Caprese salad. It’s simple, but that’s exactly the point. Good tomatoes, creamy mozzarella, fresh basil and a generous drizzle of balsamic. No unnecessary reinventions, no deconstructed chaos—just something fresh that actually tastes like its ingredients. If it’s on a menu, I’m ordering it without hesitation.
Then there are mains, and this is where I become extremely predictable.
If there’s a pasta alla vodka on the menu, that’s almost always my choice. It’s rich, creamy, tomatoey and basically comfort food in a bowl. If not, I’ll go for a slow-cooked beef ragù every time. The kind that clings to the pasta properly and comes topped with far too much parmesan (there’s no such thing as too much, by the way).
And then there’s my second consistent order: a Caesar salad, but with one important change. Swap the chicken for halloumi. Always. The salty, golden, slightly squeaky halloumi just works so much better for me than chicken ever has. Add crisp lettuce, crunchy croutons and a proper garlicky dressing and I’m happy.
Chips are non-negotiable too. If I see perfectly salted skin-on fries, they’re making it onto the table. Bonus points if they’re crispy enough to make that satisfying crunch sound when you break into them.
One thing you’ll rarely catch me ordering? Dessert. I’m just not a dessert person. By the time I’ve finished my main, I’m done. While everyone else is debating brownies versus cheesecake, I’m perfectly content with another drink and maybe stealing a bite or two from someone else’s plate.
Maybe one day I’ll become the kind of person who orders something new every time I go out.
But realistically? If restaurants keep serving Caprese salads, pasta alla vodka, beef ragù, Caesar salads with halloumi and proper fries… I’m not changing anytime soon.
Molly
My Holiday Beauty Bag Essentials (What I Pack and What I Always Leave Behind)
Friday, 24 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
Packing a holiday beauty bag is one of those tasks that should take ten minutes, but somehow turns into a full-scale identity crisis.
I start off feeling organised. I tell myself I’ll keep it minimal. Just the essentials. Nothing unnecessary.
And then suddenly I’m standing in front of my bathroom cupboard at 11pm trying to justify why I might need three different moisturisers, two mascaras, and a lip balm for “different moods”.
Every single time.
So over the years, I’ve slowly refined what actually makes it into my holiday beauty bag versus what gets quietly put back on the shelf before I overpack myself into chaos.
This is the real version.
The mindset shift: less but better
The biggest change I’ve made is accepting that I don’t need my entire skincare routine on holiday.
My skin behaves better when I simplify things, and I enjoy the process of getting ready more when I’m not digging through a bag of products I’ll never use.
Now I pack for three things:
Protection
Simplicity
Products I actually reach for at home
Everything else stays behind.
Skincare I actually take
My skincare routine abroad is stripped right back. No extras, no experimenting, no “just in case” products.
Cleanser
One simple cleanser that works for both morning and night. No backups.
Moisturiser
A reliable moisturiser that can handle sun, air conditioning, and whatever else the holiday throws at me.
Suncream (non-negotiable)
I don’t overthink this one. I take a good suncream and reapply it properly. If anything is worth space in a bag, it’s this. Factor 50, always.
After sun
Something soothing for the evenings, especially if I’ve been in the sun all day.
That’s it. No 10-step routine. No unnecessary layering. Just basics that keep my skin calm and comfortable.
Makeup I actually use on holiday
Holiday makeup is very different from everyday makeup for me. It’s lighter, quicker, and slightly more forgiving.
Base
A light powder foundation or powder base. Something quick, easy, and not heavy on the skin.
Concealer
For under eyes or anything that needs a bit of coverage, but nothing full glam.
Mascara
Waterproof only. There is no debate here.
Brows
Usually just a pencil or gel for quick definition, especially since my brows are already tinted before I go away.
Blush
A simple powder blush. Quick to apply, easy to top up, and it lasts well in the heat.
Lips
Lip balm with SPF and one lip colour I can wear day or night.
Holiday makeup is about looking fresh, not fully done.
Hair products I don’t overthink
I used to pack far too many hair products “just in case”.
Now I keep it simple:
Shampoo and conditioner - never to be forgotten!
Leave-in conditioner or hair oil
Heat protectant if I’m styling it
I’ve learned that my hair behaves better on holiday when I stop trying to force it into perfection and just let it do its thing.
Body care essentials
This is where I used to overpack the most.
Now I stick to:
Body wash
Moisturiser or lotion
Suncream for body - again, Factot 50, always. Melanoma is no joke!
A simple deodorant
Anything fancy or extra stays at home.
Tools and extras I always take
There are a few things I never travel without now because I’ve made the mistake of forgetting them before.
Hairbrush
Hair ties and clips
Tweezers
Nail file
Mini mirror
Small skincare tools if needed
Nothing glamorous, just the things that quietly save you when you need them.
What I always leave behind (and used to overpack)
This is where I’ve really changed my habits.
Multiple moisturisers
I don’t need a day cream, night cream, travel cream and emergency cream.
Too many makeup options
If I don’t wear it at home, I won’t suddenly become that person on holiday.
Full-size products
They take up space, leak, and are unnecessary when travel sizes exist.
Hair styling tools I won’t use
If I’m honest, I’m not doing a full blow-dry routine on holiday.
“Just in case” skincare
Anything experimental or new always stays at home now. Holidays are not the time for skin surprises.
My rule now: if I don’t use it in a normal week, it doesn’t go
This is the simplest shift I’ve made, and it’s changed everything.
If I haven’t used it in the last week or two at home, I don’t pack it.
It immediately cuts out about half the unnecessary items.
And somehow, I never miss them.
Final thoughts
My holiday beauty bag used to be chaotic, overstuffed and slightly stressful to unpack.
Now it’s simple, predictable, and actually functional.
I still have everything I need, but I’m no longer carrying an entire bathroom with me “just in case”.
And honestly, that alone makes going away feel easier.
Next up: my full holiday packing list — the realistic one I actually follow, not the fantasy version where I wear six different outfits a day and somehow need three pairs of heels.
Molly
Please note: The Dry Shampoo pictured was previously gifted in 2018.
15 Things I Stopped Caring About as I Got Older (And I'm Happier for It)
Sunday, 19 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Other
Please note: The above picture was taken at our wedding by the wonderful Ben Braybrooke.
Growing older has a funny way of changing your priorities.
When I was younger, I thought becoming an adult meant having everything figured out. A spotless home, an organised calendar, a healthy social life, perfectly folded laundry... you know, the sort of person who probably remembers to water their houseplants.
Spoiler alert: I am not that person.
What has changed, though, is the amount of energy I spend worrying about things that don't actually matter.
Somewhere between getting older, reading more books, going on camping trips and generally realising that life is too short, I started letting go of things that used to take up far too much space in my head.
Honestly? It's been wonderfully freeing.
Here are 15 things I stopped caring about as I got older and why I'm much happier because of it.
1. People Thinking I'm Boring
If staying in with a good book, a takeaway and the dog makes me boring...
Brilliant.
There was a time when I'd say yes to plans simply because I thought I should. Now I know that protecting my energy is far more valuable than forcing myself onto a night out I'd rather skip.
My idea of a perfect Friday night has changed, and I'm completely fine with that.
2. Finishing Every Book I Start
I used to treat giving up on a book like some sort of personal failure.
Now?
If I'm not enjoying it, it's going back on the shelf.
Life is far too short, and there are far too many brilliant books waiting to be read.
3. Having a Perfectly Tidy Home
Would I like my flat to look like a Pinterest board every day?
Absolutely.
Does it?
Not unless someone's coming round.
Sometimes the washing stays in the basket for an extra day. Sometimes there's camping gear drying in the hallway. Sometimes both happen at once.
And the world keeps turning.
4. Owning the Latest Everything
There was definitely a phase where I convinced myself a new gadget, outfit or home accessory would somehow transform my life.
It rarely did.
These days, I'd much rather buy something I'll genuinely use than something that's simply trending.
5. Saying No
This one has taken practice.
I used to worry endlessly about disappointing people.
Now I've realised that saying "no" to something I don't want to do is often saying "yes" to something I do, whether that's rest, reading, spending time with family or simply having an evening with absolutely no plans.
6. Comparing My Timeline to Everyone Else's
Social media has a wonderful way of making it feel like everyone else is travelling the world, running half marathons and somehow meal-prepping for the entire week before breakfast on a Sunday.
The reality?
Everyone's life looks different.
And that's exactly how it's supposed to be.
7. Always Looking Busy
For some reason, being busy used to feel like an achievement.
Now I actively protect quiet evenings.
I've learnt that being constantly busy isn't the same thing as being happy.
8. Following Every Trend
Fashion trends.
Book trends.
TikTok trends.
Some I love.
Some make me wonder if everyone else is seeing something I'm not.
I've become much happier buying, wearing and reading things because I like them and not because the internet told me I should.
9. Apologising for My Hobbies
I read over 100 books a year.
I get ridiculously excited about camping.
I can spend far too long researching random things.
None of these hobbies are particularly glamorous, but they make me happy.
That's enough.
10. Being Productive All the Time
Some evenings are for getting things done.
Others are for lying on the sofa watching rubbish TV while claiming I'll "just read one chapter" before accidentally staying up until midnight.
Both are perfectly acceptable.
11. Pleasing Everyone
This is perhaps the hardest lesson.
No matter what you do, someone will disagree with you.
Someone won't like you.
Someone will misunderstand you.
Once I accepted that, life became much less exhausting.
12. Looking Perfect in Photos
The older I get, the more I value having the memory over having the perfect picture.
Some of my favourite photos are blurry, windswept and taken halfway through a camping trip where absolutely nobody looked camera-ready.
They're still my favourites.
13. Missing Out
I've discovered that saying no to one thing usually means saying yes to something better suited to me.
Missing one party won't ruin your social life.
Skipping one trend won't make you irrelevant.
Not watching the latest TV series immediately won't cause national outrage.
Probably.
14. Making Every Hobby "Useful"
Not everything needs to become a side hustle.
Reading doesn't have to improve my productivity.
Camping doesn't have to teach me life lessons.
Sometimes hobbies are allowed to exist simply because they're enjoyable.
Imagine that.
15. Having Everything Figured Out
This might be the biggest one.
I used to think adults reached a magical age where they suddenly knew exactly what they were doing.
I'm increasingly convinced we're all just making it up as we go.
And honestly?
That's quite comforting.
Final Thoughts
Getting older hasn't meant caring less about everything.
It's meant caring more carefully.
I've stopped wasting energy on trying to meet impossible standards and started focusing on the people, hobbies and experiences that genuinely make me happy.
Am I still a work in progress?
Absolutely.
Will I still occasionally compare myself to strangers on the internet before reminding myself to stop?
Almost certainly.
But I'm much kinder to myself than I used to be.
And I think that's one of the best parts about getting older.
Molly
The Ultimate Holiday Beauty Prep Timeline (Before You Go Abroad)
Friday, 17 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
There is a very specific kind of confidence that comes from feeling properly prepared before a holiday.
Not perfectly prepared which doesn’t exist but prepared enough that you’re not panic-booking appointments the night before you fly or questioning whether your nails will still look acceptable in airport lighting.
Over time, I’ve developed a holiday beauty prep timeline that actually follows real-life scheduling (and salon availability), rather than the fantasy version where everything magically fits into the week before you go.
This is the system I use every time I go away.
Two months before: the “if you don’t book now, you won’t get in” stage
This is the most important step and the one that saves the most stress later.
Hair appointment (non-negotiable timing)
I book my hair appointment around two months in advance specifically for the week before I go away.
This timing is intentional.
It means:
My colour is fresh for holiday photos
My hair has time to settle before I travel
I’m not scrambling for last-minute hairdresser availability
There’s something very satisfying about knowing your hair is already sorted long before suitcase chaos begins.
One to two months before: the “planning phase”
Nails (BIAB, booked in advance)
My nail appointments, both manicure and pedicure, are also booked months ahead because BIAB slots fill quickly.
This is one of the few beauty treatments I genuinely plan early every time.
For holidays, I always switch things up. I move away from my usual black or French nails and go for bright, bold colours that feel completely different to my everyday look.
It’s a small thing, but it genuinely changes how “holiday-ready” everything feels.
There’s something about looking down at neon or pastel nails while you’re abroad that just hits differently.
Three to four weeks before: the “getting organised properly” stage
This is where I start thinking about everything else that needs booking or scheduling.
Skin prep (light planning only)
I don’t overhaul anything here, but I make sure I’m not introducing new skincare products or doing anything risky that could cause breakouts or irritation.
Consistency is the goal, not experimentation.
Finalising appointments
At this point I’m double-checking timings for:
Hair
Nails
Brows
Lashes
Facials
This is where the structure of the holiday beauty prep really starts to come together.
One week before: the “everything is happening now” stage
This is the busiest beauty week, but also the most satisfying.
Brows and lashes
I get my brows waxed and dyed, and my lashes dyed about a week before I travel.
This timing works perfectly because everything looks fresh, defined and low-maintenance once I’m away.
It means I can wear minimal makeup on holiday and still feel put together.
Skin treatments
Around the same time, I book in:
Dermaplaning
A glow facial
These are my go-to pre-holiday treatments because they make my skin feel smooth, fresh and hydrated without being too harsh or unpredictable.
I avoid anything overly intense or experimental at this stage. Holiday skin is not the time for surprises.
Hair appointment (week before travel)
This is when my hair appointment actually happens — roughly one week before I fly.
By this point:
Colour is fresh
Cut is done
Everything feels styled but not too “new”
It also gives me a few days to wash, style and get used to it before packing begins.
Five to seven days before: the “final beauty prep” stage
This is when everything starts to feel real.
Nails (fresh BIAB and holiday colour)
My BIAB nails (both hands and toes!) are done here, in a bright holiday colour that immediately puts me in the mood to go away.
This is one of my favourite parts of the whole prep process.
It’s a small detail, but it signals that the holiday is officially close.
Skin maintenance
At this point, I simplify everything:
Gentle cleansing
Hydration
Moisturiser and SPF
No new products. No experimenting. No “quick fixes”.
If my skin is behaving, I leave it alone.
Two to three days before: the “don’t mess anything up now” stage
This is where discipline comes in.
Hair removal or touch-ups
Any shaving or maintenance is done here so there’s no irritation right before flying.
Hydration focus
It sounds simple, but this is when I really focus on:
Drinking more water
Getting decent sleep
Not overloading my skin with products
It makes a noticeable difference by travel day.
The night before: the “keep it calm” stage
This is where I actively avoid doing too much.
Bath and simple skincare
I have a bath rather than a shower, keep my skincare routine very minimal, and avoid anything that could cause irritation overnight.
No overthinking. No last-minute treatments. Just calm prep.
Optional fake tan
If I’m using fake tan, this is usually the night I apply it, but I keep it subtle and realistic rather than trying to completely transform my skin tone in one go.
The goal is to wake up feeling fresh, not stressed.
Travel day: minimal effort mode
By this point, everything is done.
My routine is simple:
Cleanser
Moisturiser
SPF
Makeup, if I wear any, is light and comfortable enough for a flight.
And then it’s just a final slow check before leaving the house:
Passport. Phone. Wallet. Chargers. Sunglasses.
And we go.
Final thoughts
The biggest shift in my holiday beauty prep over time hasn’t been about doing more.
It’s been about timing things properly.
Booking early where needed. Spacing treatments out. Avoiding last-minute panic decisions. And keeping everything simple in the final few days.
You don’t need a full transformation before a holiday.
You just need to feel like yourself albeit slightly more rested, slightly more organised, and slightly more ready to sit in an airport pretending you’re a very calm and composed traveller.
Next up: what I actually pack in my holiday beauty bag, and what I always leave behind no matter how tempted I am to overpack.
Molly
Camping Checklist for Beginners: Everything You Actually Need for Your First Trip
Sunday, 12 July 2026 • Camping, Lifestyle, Other, Travel
I'll admit it.
Before our first camping trip, I made approximately 47 different lists.
One on my phone.
One in a notebook.
One scribbled on the back of an envelope.
Despite all that preparation, we still managed to forget something.
(I'm convinced forgetting one item is an unwritten camping tradition.)
If you're planning your first camping trip, it can feel like you need to buy half of your local camping shop. Social media certainly doesn't help as everyone seems to have an endless collection of gadgets that apparently transform your holiday.
The good news?
You really don't need all of it.
After a couple of years of camping, we've learnt what's genuinely essential, what's nice to have, and what can definitely wait until you've caught the camping bug.
So here's our realistic camping checklist for beginners.
The Absolute Essentials
Let's start with the things you genuinely can't do without.
Shelter
Tent
Footprint or groundsheet
Tent pegs
Mallet
Spare guy ropes
Top tip: Count your tent pegs before you leave. Future You will thank Present You.
Sleeping
Air bed or camping mattress
Sleeping bags or Duvet
Pillows
Pump for inflatable mattresses
Extra blanket (trust me)
Camping evenings can get chilly, even in the middle of summer.
Camp Furniture
You don't need luxury furniture.
You do need somewhere to sit.
Our essentials are:
Camping chairs
Camping table
Lantern
Head torches
You'll wonder how you ever lived without a head torch the first time you need the toilet at 2am.
Cooking Equipment
Unless you're planning to eat out every meal (which, to be fair, is tempting), you'll need a few basics.
We always pack:
Camping stove
Gas
Lighter
Kettle
Frying pan
Saucepan
Plates
Bowls
Mugs
Cutlery
Sharp knife
Chopping board
Washing-up bowl
Sponge
Washing-up liquid
Tea towel
Tin opener
Please don't forget the tin opener. Speaking from... absolutely no personal experience...
Food Essentials
Before every trip I write a meal plan.
Do I always stick to it?
Not exactly.
But it definitely stops us buying six bags of crisps and forgetting breakfast.
Don't forget:
Tea and coffee
Milk
Water
Cooking oil
Salt and pepper
Snacks
Camping snacks are in their own food group.
I'm fairly sure that's scientifically proven.
Clothing
The British weather likes to keep us humble.
Pack for every season, even if you're travelling in July.
I'd include:
Waterproof coat
Warm jumper
T-shirts
Shorts
Trousers
Plenty of socks
Comfortable shoes
Flip-flops for shower blocks
Hat
Sunglasses
Toiletries
This one's easy to overlook (just ask my husband!).
Remember:
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Shower gel
Shampoo
Deodorant
Sun cream
After sun
Toilet roll
Towels
Don't rely on campsite shops having exactly what you need.
Things We Didn't Realise We'd Need
These have become camping staples for us.
Bin bags
Baby wipes
Microfibre cloths
Power bank
Extension lead (if you're using electric hook-up)
Clothes pegs
Washing line
Extra carrier bags
Kitchen roll
None of them are exciting.
Every single one is useful.
Things You Can Probably Wait Before Buying
When we first started camping, I thought we needed every clever gadget I'd seen online.
Turns out, you really don't.
I'd wait before buying things like:
Fancy camping cupboards
Expensive outdoor rugs
Pizza ovens
Coffee machines
Decorative lights
Every storage gadget under the sun
Go on a couple of trips first.
You'll quickly figure out what would genuinely improve your camping experience rather than just taking up space in the car.
Our Biggest Piece of Advice
Don't worry about having the perfect setup.
Honestly, nobody starts there.
Every camping trip teaches you something.
You'll discover a better way to organise the car.
You'll realise you need another blanket.
You'll buy one or two things that make life easier.
That's all part of the fun.
Our camping setup now looks completely different to our first trip and I suspect it'll keep evolving for years to come.
Final Thoughts
If you're about to head off on your first camping adventure, keep things simple.
Take the essentials.
Don't stress if you forget something.
Almost every camper has forgotten something important at least once, and most campsites have a shop or a friendly neighbour willing to help.
The perfect camping setup isn't built before your first trip.
It's built one adventure at a time.
What's one item you now refuse to camp without?
Or, if you're planning your first camping trip, what are you most worried about forgetting?
Let me know in the comments, I always love hearing other campers' tips (and it reassures me that I'm not the only one who's ever forgotten something obvious!).
Molly
The Ultimate Guide to Preparing for a Holiday Abroad (Get Ready With Me Weekly Mini Series)
Friday, 10 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Travel
Right, I’m officially in that stage where a holiday is close enough to feel exciting, but still far enough away that I’m pretending I don’t need to start properly organising anything yet.
Meanwhile, I’ve already mentally packed at least three times.
You know the feeling. I’ve opened my suitcase “just to check something”, started a Notes list titled HOLIDAY THINGS, and convinced myself I absolutely need new outfits for scenarios that do not and will not exist.
So consider this your get ready with me for a holiday abroad moment.
And yes, you’re coming with me through the whole thing.
The pre-holiday chaos phase
Before I get organised, there is always a slightly chaotic stage where everything suddenly feels urgent.
I start thinking I need:
A completely new skincare routine for “the sun”
Around twelve outfits for a five-day trip
At least three books, even though I’ll only read one
Travel minis of everything I’ve ever seen in Boots
Shoes for walking, dinners, beach days, and vague emergency situations I cannot define
And despite all of that preparation, I will still nearly forget my phone charger.
Every time.
So this time, I’m doing it differently. Or at least, trying to.
A weekly mini series so we don’t spiral
Instead of turning everything into one overwhelming checklist, I’ve broken it down into a weekly mini series.
Each week we’ll focus on one part of holiday prep so it actually feels manageable instead of chaotic.
Over the next few weeks, we’ll go through:
Beauty prep before a holiday so you feel ready rather than rushed
The beauty products I actually pack versus what I leave at home
My real holiday packing list (not the fantasy version where I wear heels every evening)
Travel essentials I never board a plane without
Outfit ideas that stop me overpacking ten versions of the same dress
How I research my destination so I don’t miss the best spots
Think of it as getting ready for a holiday together, step by step.
No stress. No last-minute panic packing. Just a more realistic way of doing things.
My actual approach to holiday prep now
I’ve learned the hard way that doing everything the night before a flight is not the move.
Now I spread it out.
A bit of beauty prep a week or two in advance.
A packing list that builds gradually instead of all at once.
Outfits laid out and edited down instead of thrown in “just in case”.
And a slightly excessive amount of time spent saving cafés, beaches and restaurants on Google Maps.
It’s not perfect. But it works.
More importantly, it means the run-up to a holiday actually feels exciting instead of stressful.
Let’s get ready properly
Holidays should feel like something you look forward to from the moment you book them, not something you survive in the days before you leave.
So this is your official invitation to get ready with me.
We are doing this properly, but not perfectly.
And each week, we’ll work through another part of the process together.
Next week we start with beauty prep before a holiday abroad, including the timeline I actually follow so I feel put together before I even get on the plane.
Molly
Kindle Unlimited: Is It Worth It? My Honest Review After Reading 100+ Books a Year
Wednesday, 8 July 2026 • Lifestyle, Other, Reading, Review
If you've spent any amount of time lurking around BookTok or bookstagram, you've probably seen people talking about Kindle Unlimited.
Usually accompanied by someone dramatically announcing that they "saved £300 this month."
Which immediately makes you wonder...
Am I missing out?
As someone who reads well over 100 books a year (yes, I know... I also wonder where the time goes), I've been using Kindle Unlimited for years, and I get asked all the time whether it's actually worth paying for.
The short answer?
For me, absolutely.
But it isn't the right choice for everyone.
Here's my honest review, including what Kindle Unlimited is, who it's best for, and whether it could actually save you money.
What Is Kindle Unlimited?
Kindle Unlimited is Amazon's monthly ebook subscription service.
Instead of buying individual books, you pay one monthly fee and can borrow from a catalogue of millions of ebooks, along with thousands of audiobooks and magazines.
Think of it as Netflix... but for books.
You don't own the books permanently, but you can borrow up to 20 titles at a time and return them whenever you like to borrow something new.
If you're someone who tears through books as quickly as I do, that's a dangerous amount of temptation.
How Much Does Kindle Unlimited Cost?
At the time of writing, Kindle Unlimited costs around the price of one paperback each month.
That means if you read just two or three eligible books every month, you've probably already got your money's worth.
If you regularly buy new releases, the maths becomes even more convincing. GIRL MATHS.
What Books Are Available?
This is probably the biggest misconception.
Not every Kindle book is included.
Popular traditionally published books come and go, while many independent authors have their books available all the time.
The catalogue is especially strong if you enjoy:
Romance
Fantasy
Thrillers
Psychological thrillers
Cozy mysteries
Contemporary fiction
Young Adult
Romantasy
I've discovered some absolute favourites that I'd never have picked up if they'd required me to spend £5 or £10 on a whim.
That's one of my favourite things about Kindle Unlimited, it encourages you to take chances.
The Pros of Kindle Unlimited
I've Saved a Small Fortune
Let's be honest.
Books aren't cheap.
If you're reading five, ten or even twenty books a month, buying every single one quickly becomes an expensive hobby.
Kindle Unlimited has easily saved me hundreds of pounds over the years.
Probably more.
Although I'd rather not calculate it because I'd only end up using the savings as an excuse to buy more books.
It Helps Me Escape Reading Slumps
One of the biggest reasons I love Kindle Unlimited is that I never feel guilty abandoning a book.
If I'm 15% into a novel and it's just not clicking?
Back it goes.
No buyer's remorse.
No stubborn determination to finish because "I paid for it."
That freedom has genuinely helped me avoid some very long reading slumps.
It Encourages Me to Try New Authors
Some of my favourite authors were complete unknowns to me until I found them on Kindle Unlimited.
Without the subscription, I'd probably never have taken the risk.
Now they're automatic pre-orders.
The Downsides
It's not perfect.
Not Every Bestseller Is Included
If you're subscribing because you expect every viral BookTok title to be available, you'll probably be disappointed.
Some are included.
Many aren't.
The catalogue changes regularly, so availability can vary.
You Don't Own the Books
Once you cancel your subscription, you lose access to any books you've borrowed.
If it's a book you'll want to reread every year, you might still decide to buy a copy.
It Can Be Overwhelming
There are so many books.
Sometimes choosing what to read becomes harder than actually reading.
My TBR certainly hasn't got any smaller.
Who Should Get Kindle Unlimited?
I'd recommend it if you:
Read at least two books a month.
Love discovering new authors.
Enjoy romance, fantasy or thrillers.
Prefer reading on a Kindle or Kindle app.
Often finish books in just a few days.
If you're only reading a handful of books each year, it probably isn't worth paying for every month.
You could always subscribe for a few months, binge-read everything on your list, then cancel until you're ready to do it again.
My Favourite Thing About Kindle Unlimited
This might sound strange, but my favourite part isn't actually saving money.
It's removing the pressure.
Because I haven't individually paid for each book, I'm much more willing to experiment.
Some books become unexpected favourites.
Some get returned after three chapters.
Either way, I don't feel like I've wasted money.
Reading becomes fun again instead of feeling like a financial commitment.
Is Kindle Unlimited Worth It?
For me?
Without question.
As someone who reads over 100 books every year, it pays for itself many times over.
I've discovered brilliant authors, escaped countless reading slumps and saved far more money than I'd care to admit.
That said, it really comes down to how much you read.
If you only finish a few books each year, buying them individually probably makes more sense.
But if you're constantly adding books to your wish list and wondering where your book budget disappeared...
Kindle Unlimited is definitely worth considering.
Final Thoughts
Reading is one of my favourite hobbies, and anything that makes it easier, cheaper and more enjoyable gets a big thumbs up from me.
Will Kindle Unlimited magically stop you buying physical books?
Absolutely not.
Trust me.
You'll still somehow convince yourself you need that gorgeous sprayed-edge special edition.
But it might just stop your bank account crying quite so often.
And that's a win in my book.
Molly


