Packing for a two week holiday should, in theory, be straightforward.

Two weeks is long enough that you feel like you need everything, but short enough that you could technically survive with a capsule wardrobe if you were a completely different, highly disciplined version of yourself.

I am not that version of myself.

So over time, I’ve stopped trying to pack for an imaginary “perfect holiday me” and started packing for the version of me who repeats outfits, prioritises comfort, and still somehow forgets at least one essential item every single time.

This is my realistic 2 week holiday packing list.

The mindset shift: I stopped packing for two weeks of different personalities

The biggest mistake I used to make was packing like I was going to reinvent my entire lifestyle abroad.

I would pack:

• Too many “nice dinner” outfits

• Too many shoes I would never wear

• Skincare I had never used before

• And enough books for a small literary festival

  
  

Now I’ve accepted a simple truth:

For two weeks away, I still wear the same core outfits on repeat.

Once I understood that, everything got easier.

Clothing: realistic outfits for two weeks, not fourteen fantasy days

This is where I used to massively overpack.

Now I aim for mix-and-match pieces that actually get worn.

Day outfits

For a two week trip, I pack:

• 5–6 daytime outfits that can be repeated

• Lightweight dresses, shorts and tops that mix easily

• A couple of “throw on and go” outfits for travel mornings or relaxed days

  
  

In reality, I rotate through the same favourites and ignore the rest.

Evening outfits

• 3–4 relaxed evening outfits

• One slightly dressier option (that I tell myself I will wear more than I actually do)

  
  

Two weeks sounds like you need variety. You don’t. You need options you actually like wearing.

Swimwear

• 3–4 swimsuits or bikinis

• 1–2 cover-ups

  
  

I always overpack swimwear, but it’s one of the few things I don’t regret.

Sleepwear

• One oversized t-shirt

  
  

Underwear and socks

I do not underpack this anymore. Experience has taught me better.

Layers

• One light cardigan or shirt

• One jumper for travel days or cooler evenings

  
  

Shoes: the most simplified part of my packing

Shoes used to be where my suitcase went wrong every time.

Now I stick to:

• Sandals (everyday wear)

• Trainers (travel days and walking)

• One nicer pair for evenings

  
  

If it hurts my feet at home, it does not go on a two week holiday. Simple rule, fewer regrets.

Toiletries: the edited version

This is heavily streamlined thanks to my separate beauty bag system.

For two weeks, I take:

• Skincare essentials only

• Suncream (face and body)

• Shampoo and conditioner (travel sizes or decanted)

• Body wash

• Moisturiser

• Deodorant

• Minimal makeup bag

  
  

No duplicates. No backups. No “just in case” versions of things I already packed.

Tech and essentials I never skip

These are non-negotiable for me now.

• Phone and charger

• Portable charger

• Plug adapter

• Headphones or AirPods

• Kindle

• Charging cables

• Passport and travel wallet

  
  

The Kindle is arguably the most important item here for a two week trip. I will not be persuaded otherwise.

Hand luggage for travel day

This is where I used to go wrong the most, so I now treat it separately.

• Passport

• Phone

• Wallet

• Kindle or book

• Headphones

• Empty water bottle (for after security)

• Snacks

• Lip balm

• Suncream (small size)

• Light jumper or scarf

  
  

If travel day goes wrong, it is usually because I forgot something from this list.

What I always forget (even after years of travelling)

No matter how many lists I write, these still get left behind sometimes:

• Hair ties

• Sunglasses

• Phone charger

• Toothbrush

• One random essential I only notice too late

I now mentally budget for forgetting one item. It reduces stress.

What I still overpack for two weeks

Even with experience, I am not perfect.

• Extra dresses I don’t wear

• Too many “nice” outfits

• Books I don’t finish

• Makeup I barely touch

• Shoes I never leave the suitcase

I’ve accepted this is part of my process.

My two week packing rule

If I wouldn’t wear it in the next week at home, I don’t pack it.

If I hesitate for more than 10 seconds, it doesn’t go.

And if I say “just in case,” it is almost always unnecessary.

Final thoughts

A two week holiday used to feel like a packing challenge I needed to win.

Now it’s just about being realistic.

I still overpack slightly, but it’s controlled, intentional overpacking rather than chaos-driven panic packing.

And honestly, that feels like progress.

Next up: travel essentials I never fly without — the small things that make a surprisingly big difference on long travel days and airport journeys.

Molly

I always tell myself that this time I’m going to be adventurous when I order. I’ll scan the menu properly, ignore my usual favourites and try something completely new.

And then I see a Caprese salad… and all of that ambition quietly disappears.

Some foods just hit every time, and I’ve accepted that I’m never going to stop ordering them.

First up is a Caprese salad. It’s simple, but that’s exactly the point. Good tomatoes, creamy mozzarella, fresh basil and a generous drizzle of balsamic. No unnecessary reinventions, no deconstructed chaos—just something fresh that actually tastes like its ingredients. If it’s on a menu, I’m ordering it without hesitation.

Then there are mains, and this is where I become extremely predictable.

If there’s a pasta alla vodka on the menu, that’s almost always my choice. It’s rich, creamy, tomatoey and basically comfort food in a bowl. If not, I’ll go for a slow-cooked beef ragù every time. The kind that clings to the pasta properly and comes topped with far too much parmesan (there’s no such thing as too much, by the way).

And then there’s my second consistent order: a Caesar salad, but with one important change. Swap the chicken for halloumi. Always. The salty, golden, slightly squeaky halloumi just works so much better for me than chicken ever has. Add crisp lettuce, crunchy croutons and a proper garlicky dressing and I’m happy.

Chips are non-negotiable too. If I see perfectly salted skin-on fries, they’re making it onto the table. Bonus points if they’re crispy enough to make that satisfying crunch sound when you break into them.

One thing you’ll rarely catch me ordering? Dessert. I’m just not a dessert person. By the time I’ve finished my main, I’m done. While everyone else is debating brownies versus cheesecake, I’m perfectly content with another drink and maybe stealing a bite or two from someone else’s plate.

Maybe one day I’ll become the kind of person who orders something new every time I go out.

But realistically? If restaurants keep serving Caprese salads, pasta alla vodka, beef ragù, Caesar salads with halloumi and proper fries… I’m not changing anytime soon.

Molly

Packing a holiday beauty bag is one of those tasks that should take ten minutes, but somehow turns into a full-scale identity crisis.

I start off feeling organised. I tell myself I’ll keep it minimal. Just the essentials. Nothing unnecessary.

And then suddenly I’m standing in front of my bathroom cupboard at 11pm trying to justify why I might need three different moisturisers, two mascaras, and a lip balm for “different moods”.

Every single time.

So over the years, I’ve slowly refined what actually makes it into my holiday beauty bag versus what gets quietly put back on the shelf before I overpack myself into chaos.

This is the real version.

The mindset shift: less but better

The biggest change I’ve made is accepting that I don’t need my entire skincare routine on holiday.

My skin behaves better when I simplify things, and I enjoy the process of getting ready more when I’m not digging through a bag of products I’ll never use.

Now I pack for three things:

• Protection

• Simplicity

• Products I actually reach for at home

  
  

Everything else stays behind.

Skincare I actually take

My skincare routine abroad is stripped right back. No extras, no experimenting, no “just in case” products.

Cleanser

One simple cleanser that works for both morning and night. No backups.

Moisturiser

A reliable moisturiser that can handle sun, air conditioning, and whatever else the holiday throws at me.

Suncream (non-negotiable)

I don’t overthink this one. I take a good suncream and reapply it properly. If anything is worth space in a bag, it’s this. Factor 50, always.

After sun

Something soothing for the evenings, especially if I’ve been in the sun all day.

That’s it. No 10-step routine. No unnecessary layering. Just basics that keep my skin calm and comfortable.

Makeup I actually use on holiday

Holiday makeup is very different from everyday makeup for me. It’s lighter, quicker, and slightly more forgiving.

Base

A light powder foundation or powder base. Something quick, easy, and not heavy on the skin.

Concealer

For under eyes or anything that needs a bit of coverage, but nothing full glam.

Mascara

Waterproof only. There is no debate here.

Brows

Usually just a pencil or gel for quick definition, especially since my brows are already tinted before I go away.

Blush

A simple powder blush. Quick to apply, easy to top up, and it lasts well in the heat.

Lips

Lip balm with SPF and one lip colour I can wear day or night.

Holiday makeup is about looking fresh, not fully done.

Hair products I don’t overthink

I used to pack far too many hair products “just in case”.

Now I keep it simple:

• Shampoo and conditioner - never to be forgotten!

• Leave-in conditioner or hair oil

• Heat protectant if I’m styling it

  
  

I’ve learned that my hair behaves better on holiday when I stop trying to force it into perfection and just let it do its thing.

Body care essentials

This is where I used to overpack the most.

Now I stick to:

• Body wash

• Moisturiser or lotion

• Suncream for body - again, Factot 50, always. Melanoma is no joke!

• A simple deodorant

  
  

Anything fancy or extra stays at home.

Tools and extras I always take

There are a few things I never travel without now because I’ve made the mistake of forgetting them before.

• Hairbrush

• Hair ties and clips

• Tweezers

• Nail file

• Mini mirror

• Small skincare tools if needed

  
  

Nothing glamorous, just the things that quietly save you when you need them.

What I always leave behind (and used to overpack)

This is where I’ve really changed my habits.

Multiple moisturisers

I don’t need a day cream, night cream, travel cream and emergency cream.

Too many makeup options

If I don’t wear it at home, I won’t suddenly become that person on holiday.

Full-size products

They take up space, leak, and are unnecessary when travel sizes exist.

Hair styling tools I won’t use

If I’m honest, I’m not doing a full blow-dry routine on holiday.

“Just in case” skincare

Anything experimental or new always stays at home now. Holidays are not the time for skin surprises.

My rule now: if I don’t use it in a normal week, it doesn’t go

This is the simplest shift I’ve made, and it’s changed everything.

If I haven’t used it in the last week or two at home, I don’t pack it.

It immediately cuts out about half the unnecessary items.

And somehow, I never miss them.

Final thoughts

My holiday beauty bag used to be chaotic, overstuffed and slightly stressful to unpack.

Now it’s simple, predictable, and actually functional.

I still have everything I need, but I’m no longer carrying an entire bathroom with me “just in case”.

And honestly, that alone makes going away feel easier.

Next up: my full holiday packing list — the realistic one I actually follow, not the fantasy version where I wear six different outfits a day and somehow need three pairs of heels.

Molly

Please note: The Dry Shampoo pictured was previously gifted in 2018.

Please note: The above picture was taken at our wedding by the wonderful Ben Braybrooke.

Growing older has a funny way of changing your priorities.

When I was younger, I thought becoming an adult meant having everything figured out. A spotless home, an organised calendar, a healthy social life, perfectly folded laundry... you know, the sort of person who probably remembers to water their houseplants.

Spoiler alert: I am not that person.

What has changed, though, is the amount of energy I spend worrying about things that don't actually matter.

Somewhere between getting older, reading more books, going on camping trips and generally realising that life is too short, I started letting go of things that used to take up far too much space in my head.

Honestly? It's been wonderfully freeing.

Here are 15 things I stopped caring about as I got older and why I'm much happier because of it.

1. People Thinking I'm Boring

If staying in with a good book, a takeaway and the dog makes me boring...

Brilliant.

There was a time when I'd say yes to plans simply because I thought I should. Now I know that protecting my energy is far more valuable than forcing myself onto a night out I'd rather skip.

My idea of a perfect Friday night has changed, and I'm completely fine with that.

2. Finishing Every Book I Start

I used to treat giving up on a book like some sort of personal failure.

Now?

If I'm not enjoying it, it's going back on the shelf.

Life is far too short, and there are far too many brilliant books waiting to be read.

3. Having a Perfectly Tidy Home

Would I like my flat to look like a Pinterest board every day?

Absolutely.

Does it?

Not unless someone's coming round.

Sometimes the washing stays in the basket for an extra day. Sometimes there's camping gear drying in the hallway. Sometimes both happen at once.

And the world keeps turning.

4. Owning the Latest Everything

There was definitely a phase where I convinced myself a new gadget, outfit or home accessory would somehow transform my life.

It rarely did.

These days, I'd much rather buy something I'll genuinely use than something that's simply trending.

5. Saying No

This one has taken practice.

I used to worry endlessly about disappointing people.

Now I've realised that saying "no" to something I don't want to do is often saying "yes" to something I do, whether that's rest, reading, spending time with family or simply having an evening with absolutely no plans.

6. Comparing My Timeline to Everyone Else's

Social media has a wonderful way of making it feel like everyone else is travelling the world, running half marathons and somehow meal-prepping for the entire week before breakfast on a Sunday.

The reality?

Everyone's life looks different.

And that's exactly how it's supposed to be.

7. Always Looking Busy

For some reason, being busy used to feel like an achievement.

Now I actively protect quiet evenings.

I've learnt that being constantly busy isn't the same thing as being happy.

8. Following Every Trend

Fashion trends.

Book trends.

TikTok trends.

Some I love.

Some make me wonder if everyone else is seeing something I'm not.

I've become much happier buying, wearing and reading things because I like them and not because the internet told me I should.

9. Apologising for My Hobbies

I read over 100 books a year.

I get ridiculously excited about camping.

I can spend far too long researching random things.

None of these hobbies are particularly glamorous, but they make me happy.

That's enough.

10. Being Productive All the Time

Some evenings are for getting things done.

Others are for lying on the sofa watching rubbish TV while claiming I'll "just read one chapter" before accidentally staying up until midnight.

Both are perfectly acceptable.

11. Pleasing Everyone

This is perhaps the hardest lesson.

No matter what you do, someone will disagree with you.

Someone won't like you.

Someone will misunderstand you.

Once I accepted that, life became much less exhausting.

12. Looking Perfect in Photos

The older I get, the more I value having the memory over having the perfect picture.

Some of my favourite photos are blurry, windswept and taken halfway through a camping trip where absolutely nobody looked camera-ready.

They're still my favourites.

13. Missing Out

I've discovered that saying no to one thing usually means saying yes to something better suited to me.

Missing one party won't ruin your social life.

Skipping one trend won't make you irrelevant.

Not watching the latest TV series immediately won't cause national outrage.

Probably.

14. Making Every Hobby "Useful"

Not everything needs to become a side hustle.

Reading doesn't have to improve my productivity.

Camping doesn't have to teach me life lessons.

Sometimes hobbies are allowed to exist simply because they're enjoyable.

Imagine that.

15. Having Everything Figured Out

This might be the biggest one.

I used to think adults reached a magical age where they suddenly knew exactly what they were doing.

I'm increasingly convinced we're all just making it up as we go.

And honestly?

That's quite comforting.

Final Thoughts

Getting older hasn't meant caring less about everything.

It's meant caring more carefully.

I've stopped wasting energy on trying to meet impossible standards and started focusing on the people, hobbies and experiences that genuinely make me happy.

Am I still a work in progress?

Absolutely.

Will I still occasionally compare myself to strangers on the internet before reminding myself to stop?

Almost certainly.

But I'm much kinder to myself than I used to be.

And I think that's one of the best parts about getting older.

Molly

There is a very specific kind of confidence that comes from feeling properly prepared before a holiday.

Not perfectly prepared which doesn’t exist but prepared enough that you’re not panic-booking appointments the night before you fly or questioning whether your nails will still look acceptable in airport lighting.

Over time, I’ve developed a holiday beauty prep timeline that actually follows real-life scheduling (and salon availability), rather than the fantasy version where everything magically fits into the week before you go.

This is the system I use every time I go away.

Two months before: the “if you don’t book now, you won’t get in” stage

This is the most important step and the one that saves the most stress later.

Hair appointment (non-negotiable timing)

I book my hair appointment around two months in advance specifically for the week before I go away.

This timing is intentional.

It means:

• My colour is fresh for holiday photos

• My hair has time to settle before I travel

• I’m not scrambling for last-minute hairdresser availability

  
  

There’s something very satisfying about knowing your hair is already sorted long before suitcase chaos begins.

One to two months before: the “planning phase”

Nails (BIAB, booked in advance)

My nail appointments, both manicure and pedicure, are also booked months ahead because BIAB slots fill quickly.

This is one of the few beauty treatments I genuinely plan early every time.

For holidays, I always switch things up. I move away from my usual black or French nails and go for bright, bold colours that feel completely different to my everyday look.

It’s a small thing, but it genuinely changes how “holiday-ready” everything feels.

There’s something about looking down at neon or pastel nails while you’re abroad that just hits differently.

Three to four weeks before: the “getting organised properly” stage

This is where I start thinking about everything else that needs booking or scheduling.

Skin prep (light planning only)

I don’t overhaul anything here, but I make sure I’m not introducing new skincare products or doing anything risky that could cause breakouts or irritation.

Consistency is the goal, not experimentation.

Finalising appointments

At this point I’m double-checking timings for:

• Hair

• Nails

• Brows

• Lashes

• Facials

  
  

This is where the structure of the holiday beauty prep really starts to come together.

One week before: the “everything is happening now” stage

This is the busiest beauty week, but also the most satisfying.

Brows and lashes

I get my brows waxed and dyed, and my lashes dyed about a week before I travel.

This timing works perfectly because everything looks fresh, defined and low-maintenance once I’m away.

It means I can wear minimal makeup on holiday and still feel put together.

Skin treatments

Around the same time, I book in:

• Dermaplaning

• A glow facial

  
  

These are my go-to pre-holiday treatments because they make my skin feel smooth, fresh and hydrated without being too harsh or unpredictable.

I avoid anything overly intense or experimental at this stage. Holiday skin is not the time for surprises.

Hair appointment (week before travel)

This is when my hair appointment actually happens — roughly one week before I fly.

By this point:

• Colour is fresh

• Cut is done

• Everything feels styled but not too “new”

  
  

It also gives me a few days to wash, style and get used to it before packing begins.

Five to seven days before: the “final beauty prep” stage

This is when everything starts to feel real.

Nails (fresh BIAB and holiday colour)

My BIAB nails (both hands and toes!) are done here, in a bright holiday colour that immediately puts me in the mood to go away.

This is one of my favourite parts of the whole prep process.

It’s a small detail, but it signals that the holiday is officially close.

Skin maintenance

At this point, I simplify everything:

• Gentle cleansing

• Hydration

• Moisturiser and SPF

  
  

No new products. No experimenting. No “quick fixes”.

If my skin is behaving, I leave it alone.

Two to three days before: the “don’t mess anything up now” stage

This is where discipline comes in.

Hair removal or touch-ups

Any shaving or maintenance is done here so there’s no irritation right before flying.

Hydration focus

It sounds simple, but this is when I really focus on:

• Drinking more water

• Getting decent sleep

• Not overloading my skin with products

  
  

It makes a noticeable difference by travel day.

The night before: the “keep it calm” stage

This is where I actively avoid doing too much.

Bath and simple skincare

I have a bath rather than a shower, keep my skincare routine very minimal, and avoid anything that could cause irritation overnight.

No overthinking. No last-minute treatments. Just calm prep.

Optional fake tan

If I’m using fake tan, this is usually the night I apply it, but I keep it subtle and realistic rather than trying to completely transform my skin tone in one go.

The goal is to wake up feeling fresh, not stressed.

Travel day: minimal effort mode

By this point, everything is done.

My routine is simple:

• Cleanser

• Moisturiser

• SPF

Makeup, if I wear any, is light and comfortable enough for a flight.

And then it’s just a final slow check before leaving the house:
Passport. Phone. Wallet. Chargers. Sunglasses.

And we go.

Final thoughts

The biggest shift in my holiday beauty prep over time hasn’t been about doing more.

It’s been about timing things properly.

Booking early where needed. Spacing treatments out. Avoiding last-minute panic decisions. And keeping everything simple in the final few days.

You don’t need a full transformation before a holiday.

You just need to feel like yourself albeit slightly more rested, slightly more organised, and slightly more ready to sit in an airport pretending you’re a very calm and composed traveller.

Next up: what I actually pack in my holiday beauty bag, and what I always leave behind no matter how tempted I am to overpack.

Molly

I'll admit it.

Before our first camping trip, I made approximately 47 different lists.

One on my phone.

One in a notebook.

One scribbled on the back of an envelope.

Despite all that preparation, we still managed to forget something.

(I'm convinced forgetting one item is an unwritten camping tradition.)

If you're planning your first camping trip, it can feel like you need to buy half of your local camping shop. Social media certainly doesn't help as everyone seems to have an endless collection of gadgets that apparently transform your holiday.

The good news?

You really don't need all of it.

After a couple of years of camping, we've learnt what's genuinely essential, what's nice to have, and what can definitely wait until you've caught the camping bug.

So here's our realistic camping checklist for beginners.

The Absolute Essentials

Let's start with the things you genuinely can't do without.

Shelter

• Tent

• Footprint or groundsheet

• Tent pegs

• Mallet

• Spare guy ropes

Top tip: Count your tent pegs before you leave. Future You will thank Present You.

Sleeping

• Air bed or camping mattress

• Sleeping bags or Duvet

• Pillows

• Pump for inflatable mattresses

• Extra blanket (trust me)

  
  

Camping evenings can get chilly, even in the middle of summer.

Camp Furniture

You don't need luxury furniture.

You do need somewhere to sit.

Our essentials are:

• Camping chairs

• Camping table

• Lantern

• Head torches

  
  

You'll wonder how you ever lived without a head torch the first time you need the toilet at 2am.

Cooking Equipment

Unless you're planning to eat out every meal (which, to be fair, is tempting), you'll need a few basics.

We always pack:

• Camping stove

• Gas

• Lighter

• Kettle

• Frying pan

• Saucepan

• Plates

• Bowls

• Mugs

• Cutlery

• Sharp knife

• Chopping board

• Washing-up bowl

• Sponge

• Washing-up liquid

• Tea towel

• Tin opener

Please don't forget the tin opener. Speaking from... absolutely no personal experience...

Food Essentials

Before every trip I write a meal plan.

Do I always stick to it?

Not exactly.

But it definitely stops us buying six bags of crisps and forgetting breakfast.

Don't forget:

• Tea and coffee

• Milk

• Water

• Cooking oil

• Salt and pepper

• Snacks

Camping snacks are in their own food group.

I'm fairly sure that's scientifically proven.

Clothing

The British weather likes to keep us humble.

Pack for every season, even if you're travelling in July.

I'd include:

• Waterproof coat

• Warm jumper

• T-shirts

• Shorts

• Trousers

• Plenty of socks

• Comfortable shoes

• Flip-flops for shower blocks

• Hat

• Sunglasses

  
  

Toiletries

This one's easy to overlook (just ask my husband!).

Remember:

• Toothbrush

• Toothpaste

• Shower gel

• Shampoo

• Deodorant

• Sun cream

• After sun

• Toilet roll

• Towels

Don't rely on campsite shops having exactly what you need.

Things We Didn't Realise We'd Need

These have become camping staples for us.

• Bin bags

• Baby wipes

• Microfibre cloths

• Power bank

• Extension lead (if you're using electric hook-up)

• Clothes pegs

• Washing line

• Extra carrier bags

• Kitchen roll

None of them are exciting.

Every single one is useful.

Things You Can Probably Wait Before Buying

When we first started camping, I thought we needed every clever gadget I'd seen online.

Turns out, you really don't.

I'd wait before buying things like:

• Fancy camping cupboards

• Expensive outdoor rugs

• Pizza ovens

• Coffee machines

• Decorative lights

• Every storage gadget under the sun

Go on a couple of trips first.

You'll quickly figure out what would genuinely improve your camping experience rather than just taking up space in the car.

Our Biggest Piece of Advice

Don't worry about having the perfect setup.

Honestly, nobody starts there.

Every camping trip teaches you something.

You'll discover a better way to organise the car.

You'll realise you need another blanket.

You'll buy one or two things that make life easier.

That's all part of the fun.

Our camping setup now looks completely different to our first trip and I suspect it'll keep evolving for years to come.

Final Thoughts

If you're about to head off on your first camping adventure, keep things simple.

Take the essentials.

Don't stress if you forget something.

Almost every camper has forgotten something important at least once, and most campsites have a shop or a friendly neighbour willing to help.

The perfect camping setup isn't built before your first trip.

It's built one adventure at a time.

What's one item you now refuse to camp without?

Or, if you're planning your first camping trip, what are you most worried about forgetting?

Let me know in the comments, I always love hearing other campers' tips (and it reassures me that I'm not the only one who's ever forgotten something obvious!).

Molly

Right, I’m officially in that stage where a holiday is close enough to feel exciting, but still far enough away that I’m pretending I don’t need to start properly organising anything yet.

Meanwhile, I’ve already mentally packed at least three times.

You know the feeling. I’ve opened my suitcase “just to check something”, started a Notes list titled HOLIDAY THINGS, and convinced myself I absolutely need new outfits for scenarios that do not and will not exist.

So consider this your get ready with me for a holiday abroad moment.

And yes, you’re coming with me through the whole thing.

The pre-holiday chaos phase

Before I get organised, there is always a slightly chaotic stage where everything suddenly feels urgent.

I start thinking I need:

• A completely new skincare routine for “the sun”

• Around twelve outfits for a five-day trip

• At least three books, even though I’ll only read one

• Travel minis of everything I’ve ever seen in Boots

• Shoes for walking, dinners, beach days, and vague emergency situations I cannot define

  
  

And despite all of that preparation, I will still nearly forget my phone charger.

Every time.

So this time, I’m doing it differently. Or at least, trying to.

A weekly mini series so we don’t spiral

Instead of turning everything into one overwhelming checklist, I’ve broken it down into a weekly mini series.

Each week we’ll focus on one part of holiday prep so it actually feels manageable instead of chaotic.

Over the next few weeks, we’ll go through:

• Beauty prep before a holiday so you feel ready rather than rushed

• The beauty products I actually pack versus what I leave at home

• My real holiday packing list (not the fantasy version where I wear heels every evening)

• Travel essentials I never board a plane without

• Outfit ideas that stop me overpacking ten versions of the same dress

• How I research my destination so I don’t miss the best spots

  
  

Think of it as getting ready for a holiday together, step by step.

No stress. No last-minute panic packing. Just a more realistic way of doing things.

My actual approach to holiday prep now

I’ve learned the hard way that doing everything the night before a flight is not the move.

Now I spread it out.

A bit of beauty prep a week or two in advance.

A packing list that builds gradually instead of all at once.

Outfits laid out and edited down instead of thrown in “just in case”.

And a slightly excessive amount of time spent saving cafés, beaches and restaurants on Google Maps.

It’s not perfect. But it works.

More importantly, it means the run-up to a holiday actually feels exciting instead of stressful.

Let’s get ready properly

Holidays should feel like something you look forward to from the moment you book them, not something you survive in the days before you leave.

So this is your official invitation to get ready with me.

We are doing this properly, but not perfectly.

And each week, we’ll work through another part of the process together.

Next week we start with beauty prep before a holiday abroad, including the timeline I actually follow so I feel put together before I even get on the plane.

Molly

If you've spent any amount of time lurking around BookTok or bookstagram, you've probably seen people talking about Kindle Unlimited.

Usually accompanied by someone dramatically announcing that they "saved £300 this month."

Which immediately makes you wonder...

Am I missing out?

As someone who reads well over 100 books a year (yes, I know... I also wonder where the time goes), I've been using Kindle Unlimited for years, and I get asked all the time whether it's actually worth paying for.

The short answer?

For me, absolutely.

But it isn't the right choice for everyone.

Here's my honest review, including what Kindle Unlimited is, who it's best for, and whether it could actually save you money.

What Is Kindle Unlimited?

Kindle Unlimited is Amazon's monthly ebook subscription service.

Instead of buying individual books, you pay one monthly fee and can borrow from a catalogue of millions of ebooks, along with thousands of audiobooks and magazines.

Think of it as Netflix... but for books.

You don't own the books permanently, but you can borrow up to 20 titles at a time and return them whenever you like to borrow something new.

If you're someone who tears through books as quickly as I do, that's a dangerous amount of temptation.

How Much Does Kindle Unlimited Cost?

At the time of writing, Kindle Unlimited costs around the price of one paperback each month.

That means if you read just two or three eligible books every month, you've probably already got your money's worth.

If you regularly buy new releases, the maths becomes even more convincing. GIRL MATHS.

What Books Are Available?

This is probably the biggest misconception.

Not every Kindle book is included.

Popular traditionally published books come and go, while many independent authors have their books available all the time.

The catalogue is especially strong if you enjoy:

• Romance

• Fantasy

• Thrillers

• Psychological thrillers

• Cozy mysteries

• Contemporary fiction

• Young Adult

• Romantasy

I've discovered some absolute favourites that I'd never have picked up if they'd required me to spend £5 or £10 on a whim.

That's one of my favourite things about Kindle Unlimited, it encourages you to take chances.

The Pros of Kindle Unlimited

I've Saved a Small Fortune

Let's be honest.

Books aren't cheap.

If you're reading five, ten or even twenty books a month, buying every single one quickly becomes an expensive hobby.

Kindle Unlimited has easily saved me hundreds of pounds over the years.

Probably more.

Although I'd rather not calculate it because I'd only end up using the savings as an excuse to buy more books.

It Helps Me Escape Reading Slumps

One of the biggest reasons I love Kindle Unlimited is that I never feel guilty abandoning a book.

If I'm 15% into a novel and it's just not clicking?

Back it goes.

No buyer's remorse.

No stubborn determination to finish because "I paid for it."

That freedom has genuinely helped me avoid some very long reading slumps.

It Encourages Me to Try New Authors

Some of my favourite authors were complete unknowns to me until I found them on Kindle Unlimited.

Without the subscription, I'd probably never have taken the risk.

Now they're automatic pre-orders.

The Downsides

It's not perfect.

Not Every Bestseller Is Included

If you're subscribing because you expect every viral BookTok title to be available, you'll probably be disappointed.

Some are included.

Many aren't.

The catalogue changes regularly, so availability can vary.

You Don't Own the Books

Once you cancel your subscription, you lose access to any books you've borrowed.

If it's a book you'll want to reread every year, you might still decide to buy a copy.

It Can Be Overwhelming

There are so many books.

Sometimes choosing what to read becomes harder than actually reading.

My TBR certainly hasn't got any smaller.

Who Should Get Kindle Unlimited?

I'd recommend it if you:

• Read at least two books a month.

• Love discovering new authors.

• Enjoy romance, fantasy or thrillers.

• Prefer reading on a Kindle or Kindle app.

• Often finish books in just a few days.

If you're only reading a handful of books each year, it probably isn't worth paying for every month.

You could always subscribe for a few months, binge-read everything on your list, then cancel until you're ready to do it again.

My Favourite Thing About Kindle Unlimited

This might sound strange, but my favourite part isn't actually saving money.

It's removing the pressure.

Because I haven't individually paid for each book, I'm much more willing to experiment.

Some books become unexpected favourites.

Some get returned after three chapters.

Either way, I don't feel like I've wasted money.

Reading becomes fun again instead of feeling like a financial commitment.

Is Kindle Unlimited Worth It?

For me?

Without question.

As someone who reads over 100 books every year, it pays for itself many times over.

I've discovered brilliant authors, escaped countless reading slumps and saved far more money than I'd care to admit.

That said, it really comes down to how much you read.

If you only finish a few books each year, buying them individually probably makes more sense.

But if you're constantly adding books to your wish list and wondering where your book budget disappeared...

Kindle Unlimited is definitely worth considering.

Final Thoughts

Reading is one of my favourite hobbies, and anything that makes it easier, cheaper and more enjoyable gets a big thumbs up from me.

Will Kindle Unlimited magically stop you buying physical books?

Absolutely not.

Trust me.

You'll still somehow convince yourself you need that gorgeous sprayed-edge special edition.

But it might just stop your bank account crying quite so often.

And that's a win in my book.

Molly

If you only ever looked at Instagram, you'd think camping consisted of fairy lights, perfectly toasted marshmallows and people waking up looking like they'd just stepped out of a shampoo advert.

The reality?

Well... someone always forgets the milk.

We've been camping for a couple of years now, and while we're certainly not experts, we've learnt a lot through trial and error (mostly error). Every trip teaches us something new, whether it's a packing hack, a piece of kit we can't believe we ever lived without, or a reminder that checking the weather forecast means absolutely nothing in Britain.

Looking back, there are quite a few things I wish someone had told us before we bought our first tent and enthusiastically declared ourselves "campers".

So, if you're thinking about giving camping a go, or you've just started your camping journey, here are eight honest things nobody tells you about starting camping.

1. You Don't Need Every Camping Gadget on the Internet

When we first started, I was convinced we needed absolutely everything.

Portable washing machines.

Collapsible everything.

A gadget that peeled potatoes while simultaneously making tea.

Camping shops are dangerous places because suddenly you're stood there thinking, "Well... I suppose we do need a rechargeable citronella lantern with Bluetooth."

Spoiler: you probably don't.

Start with the basics. After every trip you'll naturally discover what would make life easier. That's a much cheaper way of building your camping setup than panic-buying half the camping aisle before you've even pitched a tent.

2. Packing Takes Longer Than the Holiday

Nobody prepares you for this.

The holiday might be three nights.

Packing somehow takes two days.

Then you come home, unpack everything, realise the tent has to dry before you can put it away and suddenly you're still dealing with camping nearly a week later.

It's worth it, but don't expect to throw everything in the car ten minutes before leaving.

Future You will appreciate Present You making a checklist, or in my case, a full spreadsheet.

3. Bigger Tents Are Worth It (If You Have the Space)

We started out wondering whether a smaller tent would do.

Now? We'd struggle to go back.

Being able to stand up properly, have somewhere comfortable to relax if it rains, and not have to climb over each other every time someone wants a snack makes such a difference.

Yes, bigger tents take longer to put up.

Yes, they take up more room in the garage.

But after spending an evening listening to the rain while sitting comfortably inside with a hot drink, you'll quickly forget about the extra twenty minutes it took to pitch.

4. The Great British Weather Has Absolutely No Respect for Your Plans

You'll leave home in glorious sunshine.

By lunchtime it'll be raining sideways.

By dinner you'll need sunglasses again.

Learning to embrace the unpredictability is part of camping in England. Pack layers. Pack waterproofs. Accept that weather apps are making educated guesses at best.

Some of our favourite camping memories have actually come from the days that definitely weren't perfect.

5. Campsite Showers Become Weirdly Exciting

I never thought I'd have strong opinions about shower blocks.

Now?

"Oh, this one's got underfloor heating."

"Fantastic water pressure."

"Hairdryer included? Five stars."

It's a slippery slope.

6. Everything Somehow Tastes Better Outside

Breakfast.

Pasta.

A bacon sandwich.

Even the slightly squashed biscuits that have spent three hours rolling around in the car somehow taste incredible when you're sitting outside the tent.

I don't know the science behind it.

I just know camping calories don't count. (Please don't correct me.)

7. Camping Is Much Slower Than Normal Life And That's the Best Part

At home I'm always thinking about the next job.

The washing.

The emails.

The shopping.

When we're camping, everything naturally slows down.

Morning coffee lasts longer.

Evenings stretch out over a game of cards.

Reading a book suddenly feels like a perfectly productive way to spend an afternoon.

It's one of the biggest reasons we've fallen in love with camping.

8. You'll Never Stop Tweaking Your Setup

You don't "finish" buying camping equipment.

You simply reach a point where you're temporarily satisfied.

Then someone walks past your pitch with an ingenious storage solution, a brilliant bit of kit or a setup that makes you think, "Ooh... that's clever."

Before you know it, you've got another item on your wish list before you've even packed up to go home.

Camping is basically one long process of making tiny improvements every trip.

And honestly? I think that's part of the fun.

Final Thoughts

If you're new to camping, don't worry about getting everything perfect.

Honestly, nobody does.

You'll forget things.

You'll overpack.

You'll underpack.

You'll spend twenty minutes looking for the tent pegs that were "definitely in this bag."

And then you'll sit outside as the sun starts to set with a cold drink in your hand and remember exactly why you booked the trip in the first place.

Camping isn't about perfection.

It's about making memories, laughing at the little mishaps, and slowly creating a setup that works for you. Even after a couple of years, we're still tweaking ours, discovering little ways to make each trip even better and, inevitably, finding another camping gadget to add to the wish list.

Now I'd love to hear from you!

What's one thing you wish someone had told you before your first camping trip? Let me know in the comments. I love hearing other campers' stories, tips and the lessons they've learnt. There's always something new to discover, no matter how long you've been camping!

Molly

I'm prepared to be in the minority here.

In fact, I know I am.

But can someone explain when we collectively decided that every savoury meal needed to taste like dessert?

Everywhere I look, there's hot honey.

Hot honey pizza. Hot honey halloumi. Hot honey chicken. Hot honey burgers. If I blink, I'm convinced someone's going to drizzle it over a full English breakfast and call it "elevated."

And every menu seems to treat it as though it's the greatest culinary invention since sliced bread.

Apparently, I'm supposed to be excited.

I'm not.

Now, before the hot honey fan club arrives with pitchforks, let me clarify: I don't dislike honey.

I just don't want it anywhere near my dinner.

For me, savoury food should be... well... savoury. If I'm biting into a crispy chicken burger, I want crunch, seasoning and maybe a bit of spice. I don't want an unexpected hit of sweetness making me question whether I've accidentally wandered into the dessert menu.

The whole "sweet and savoury" combination has never really been my thing.

Pineapple on pizza? No thanks.

Jam with cheese? I'll pass.

Maple syrup on bacon? We don't need to involve breakfast in this discussion.

And hot honey has somehow become the latest addition to the list.

I appreciate that the sweet-and-spicy combination clearly has a huge following. Every restaurant seems determined to put it on at least one dish, and social media makes it look like the answer to all of life's problems.

Meanwhile, I'm sitting there asking if I can have it without the honey.

Again.

I think what frustrates me most is that it has become almost unavoidable. You spot something on the menu that sounds incredible, only to reach the final line and read, "...finished with hot honey."

Why?

Who asked for this?

Can we not just let spicy food be spicy?

Of course, food would be incredibly boring if we all liked the same things, and I'm genuinely pleased people have found a condiment they love.

But I'll happily remain the person requesting the plain version while everyone else is photographing their glistening, honey-drizzled pizza.

You can keep your hot honey.

I'll stick with garlic mayo, thanks.

Molly

We've all been there.

You pick up a book you've been desperate to read, make it three pages in, stare blankly at the same paragraph four times and somehow end up scrolling TikTok instead.

Or perhaps you've reached the truly tragic stage of a reading slump: buying books has become your hobby instead of actually reading them.

No judgement here. My Kindle and bookshelves are living proof.

As someone who reads over 100 books a year, people are often surprised to hear that I still get reading slumps. Surely someone who always has a book on the go doesn't lose motivation?

Oh, absolutely I do.

The difference isn't that I never get into a slump, it's that I've learnt how to get myself back out of one before it lasts months.

If you've found yourself wondering why you can't finish a book anymore, or you've lost the excitement you used to feel about reading, here are the tips that genuinely work for me.

What Is a Reading Slump?

A reading slump is exactly what it sounds like: a period where reading feels like a chore instead of something you look forward to.

You might find yourself:

• Starting lots of books but finishing none.

• Reading the same page repeatedly.

• Choosing Netflix every evening instead.

• Buying books without opening them.

• Feeling guilty every time you look at your ever-growing TBR.

The important thing to remember is that reading slumps are completely normal. They happen to everyone, from occasional readers to people who accidentally read 120 books in a year because they said, "Just one more chapter" far too many times.

Why Do Reading Slumps Happen?

There isn't usually one single reason.

Sometimes life is just busy. Your brain is tired, work is stressful and concentrating on words feels impossible.

Other times, you've simply picked the wrong book.

I've learnt the hard way that just because a book has thousands of five-star reviews doesn't mean it's the right book for me right now.

Sometimes it's not the book, it's the timing.

1. Give Yourself Permission to DNF

This was probably the biggest game changer for me.

I used to stubbornly finish every single book I started because I'd already invested time into it.

Life is too short.

If you're 30%, 50% or even 80% through a book and you're not enjoying it, put it down.

Reading should be enjoyable, not a test of endurance.

Every page you force yourself through is time you could have spent reading something you'll absolutely love.

2. Pick Up Something Easy

When you're in a slump, now isn't the time to tackle that intimidating 900-page fantasy novel that's been glaring at you from your shelf.

Choose something fun.

A thriller.

A romance.

A cosy mystery.

A short contemporary novel.

The goal isn't to impress anyone, it's simply to remember why you enjoy reading in the first place.

3. Stop Reading What You Think You Should Read

BookTok has a lot to answer for.

One minute you're happily reading your comfort genre, the next you've somehow convinced yourself you need to read the latest literary masterpiece that everyone else seems to adore.

Here's your reminder:

You don't get bonus points for reading books you hate.

Read the cheesy romance.

Read the dragon book.

Read the murder mystery.

Read whatever makes you excited to pick up your Kindle (or book!).

4. Re-read an Old Favourite

Sometimes the best cure for a reading slump isn't something new.

It's returning to a book that already feels like home.

There's something incredibly comforting about revisiting characters you already love.

No pressure.

No surprises.

Just pure reading enjoyment.

5. Read Less

I know.

It sounds completely backwards.

But if you're forcing yourself to hit a daily reading goal because you feel guilty, you're turning your hobby into homework.

Instead of aiming for 100 pages, read one chapter.

Or even five pages.

Often that's enough to remind yourself you actually wanted to read more anyway.

6. Change How You Read

If you've been reading physical books for months, try your Kindle.

If you've only been using your Kindle, pick up a paperback.

You could even try an audiobook while walking the dog, driving or doing the washing up.

Sometimes a tiny change is enough to make reading feel exciting again.

7. Create a Cosy Reading Environment

I'm convinced reading is at least 30% atmosphere.

Blanket?

Beverage of Choice?

Candles?

Dog asleep next to you?

Perfect.

Creating a little reading ritual gives your brain a cue that it's time to slow down.

8. Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Readers

This one is huge.

Social media makes it very easy to believe everyone else is reading 25 books a week while annotating every page in perfect handwriting.

They're not.

Or if they are, they're probably neglecting their laundry.

Reading isn't a competition.

Whether you read five books a year or 150, you're still a reader.

9. Visit a Bookshop or Library

Sometimes simply being surrounded by books reminds you why you fell in love with reading.

You don't even have to buy anything.

(Although if you're anything like me, that's easier said than done.)

Browse.

Read blurbs.

Sit with a coffee.

The excitement usually comes back naturally.

10. Remember That Reading Should Be Fun

This is the biggest lesson I've learnt.

Reading isn't homework.

You don't have to read classics.

You don't have to finish books you hate.

You don't have to keep up with BookTok.

Read because you enjoy it.

That's enough.

Final Thoughts

If you're in a reading slump right now, don't panic.

It doesn't mean you've fallen out of love with reading forever.

It probably just means your brain needs something different.

Some of my favourite books of all time came immediately after a reading slump because I'd finally stopped forcing myself to read what I thought I should and started reading what genuinely sounded fun.

So close the book you're pretending to enjoy.

Pick up something that actually makes you excited.

And if all else fails?

There's absolutely no shame in spending an evening curled up on the sofa with your Kindle, a glass of wine and a ridiculously addictive romance.

That's usually what gets me every time.

Molly